Easter and spring weather

Ashley is loving our Spring weather. Her and Jacob love playing outside.

I agree with them! I love taking walks right now with the flowers blooming. There is so much to see and smell and enjoy! I'm glad they like to be outside to enjoy it too.



This was a project that Jacob (really me) did to get extra credit in class. He brought his two favorite desserts, blond brownies and coconut bars and had the class try one of each to determine the ratio of who like which better. The majority of the class just said they liked both the best. I think it threw the whole ratio thing out but he still got extra credit.



We're still collecting books for Taylor...if you have any we would love them. We've been very thankful to everyone who has donated books or money to help his eagle project. They are piling up! I'll post the total number he has collected when we are done!



Taylor has decided to take on another challenge. He has decided he wants to learn the bassoon. So far he's learned that...

it's heavy,
it's hard to get the double reed to sound like it's supposed to...
it seems to attack him every time he plays it since he ends up with a scratch, dent or bruise every time.

Not exactly a "marching band" instrument but it would be good to add to his repertoire of instruments.

All I can say is good luck Taylor.



This was at a fun birthday lunch for Amy Stubbs at Olive Garden. (Always nice to have an excuse to go out to lunch with friends :)



The best part was Jennifer Shaw's awesome cake. It had creme and strawberries and I don't know what all else but it was the birthday girls favorite cake and I have to agree. It was yummy and to top it all off she had used her newly bought Cricut to cut out gum-paste words and decorations for it!

It was funny during the course of the lunch one lady would tell another how good they were at a certain thing, that lady would compliment them on how good they were at something else. I realized that it's natural to compare ourselves to other people's talents but we are all talented in our own ways and everything that we are good at contributes to make everyone's life better when we are willing to share. So...basically I don't have to be the best cake baker if you have a friend that is :) :). I left happy to know these beautiful, talented women that make my life and life of my family better just to know them.



That night I got to go to dinner (right after the afternoon session of conference) with another group of beautiful, talented women who I'm happy to have in my life to visit with Theresa who was visiting in town from Utah. (We were sad to be missing a couple who couldn't make it but they are in this category as well ;0)

So while the boys were at Priesthood session we were visiting and eating a yummy dinner at Cheesecake factory.



This was the children's dinner. Don't feel too sorry for them, they think it's a treat to eat the frozen stuff on a night when Jeff and I are gone for dinner.

The only problem was...dont store frozen dinners on their side. The brownie will ooze into areas it's not supposed to go...

I had to do some scooping and convince Ashley that it was still OK to eat!



The next day was Easter!!



Checking out the loot...



...straight out of bed...hmmmm....looks like Jacob slept in his jeans last night...despite what we tell him he still does it time to time...(how uncomfortable!)



Taylor's favorite thing was his new Yo-yo!



So this year for conference we had the kids dress in regular clothes. Partly because we were having family come over later and partly because the pajamas fostered way too much casualness and I am thinking that in jammies it was too easy to slip back to sleep during the talks (some more than others).



We shared the afternoon session with Dale and his family.



Then we had Steve's family come over as well for Easter dinner. We also had Ben come over to eat with us. It was perfect timing as he was on leave from Iraq. Nice to see him again. I'm sure he was even happier to have a break from Iraq for a little bit.



Normally we don't really get together formally for Easter but since we wanted to make a nice dinner and it's always more fun to share it with someone we were happy to have everyone over.

It was funny because I passed out food assignments and we all brought too much since we're used to much bigger family gatherings.



Kids outside enjoying the weather.



Yum.



Fixing up a scraped foot. I guess thats what you get when your playing outside without shoes on!



It was Tahna and Mo's birthdays so I had made some earing and bracelet sets for them to choose from...that sparked pulling out the beading stuff so people could make what they wanted...



hopefully they are all enjoying their custom made jewlery... :)



The next day we packed and prepared for our trip. While I was in the middle of hemming some new shorts for Jacob my sewing machine went out. Luckily my beautiful/talented friend Amy (from the birthday lunch) lent me her sewing machine to finish the job. Finally we got everything ready to go.

Little did we know that our Easter suprises weren't over yet. The first morning we were in Hawaii we got a call announcing that our chinchilla had babies. Instead of bunnies or chicks we had kits.



We knew that it was a possibility that Chimi was pregnant but it was hard to tell. We really had no idea. It was Ashley who kept saying that she was. Not more that 15 minutes before the call she commented "What if Chimi has babies while we are gone?"

We were very grateful to fellow Chinchilla owners, the Scotese girls who were watching them. They went above and beyond rescuing babies escaping from the cage and separated Churro with one of their own cages and everything. They were instrumental in us having healthy baby chinchillas when we got back.

Service, Celebrations and the Cellar

I have a little catching up to do. Last I posted I was enduring single parenthood. We were very glad to have Jeff come back late, late on Friday night. He got home in time for us to complete our family service project for the Disney give a day, get a day program.

We collected baby items for the Riverside life services for our service project, now we'll get a trip to Disneyland as a family. Definitely worth the price of admission!



After that we went to Ramona High School for their first annual Piano Festival. You could sign up and play for 3 judges who would rate your ability and give constructive criticism.

Taylor did well but not as well as he would've liked. One judge gave him the highest rating, the next one gave him the second highest rating, and the last gave him the second highest rating with a lot of pluses after it. Soo he ended up with the second highest rating overall. He was complimented on his playing but their advice was to slow down his music some. He already knew that but with his nerves going he said it was really hard to do it.

That's OK it was a good experience overall and it'll give him something to work for next time.

After his performance we cashed in our Christmas gift certificate for P.F. Changs to celebrate Taylor's performance and spend some time as a family before another busy week.



Fast forward to this last weekend and we brought the kids to see Diary of a Wimpy Kid. Jeff didn't know too much about it but the kids were very excited (especially the boys who read all the books).



How did the family rate it...

Ashley's rating was 9 1/2 out of 10

Taylor's rating was 7 1/2 "not as good as the book but still funny"

Jacob's rating was 9 1/2 "it was funny"

My rating 6 1/2 "not as horrible as I thought it would be but the books were a lot better"

and Jeff..."that was the stupidest movie I've spent money on in a long time....mumble mumble...waste of time..."






This Saturday we were in charge of helping with the Little People of America Easter Party.




Taylor was invited on a hike with friends so for the first time he decided to skip the LPA party and go on the hike instead. I guess he's getting too old for egg hunts
(of course he wasn't past trying to snake candy from the younger two later).

People were having fun hanging out on the playground of the school we rent. (The equipment is pre-school size which is perfect for us!)

Planning these events has been interesting. I've served as Vice President and Co-president for the last 4 years and this event was an election year. I was planning to take a break.

I told Joanna that I can't be president (which she wanted) while I'm serving as Relief Society President. I outlined my duties as Relief Society president to her and it even overwhelmed myself.

We discussed different names to have on the committee, nobody would step up...it looked like I would be on the "ballot" for Vice President again.

I cringed as I thought how over these last 4 years it's been a struggle but I guess we'll grin and bear it for 2 more.



So on to the party. There is usually plenty of food brought but with dividing food assignments up by last name you always wonder what your going to get. Usually it works out pretty good but this time we had a lot of salad and desserts so I'm glad I bought hot dogs as a supplement ... all 80 of them were gone by the end...

Once the other committee members got there we started playing some games. Since we were planning this event during the Olympics we decided to have some "Olympic games" complete with medals to award the participants.

This first game was the "shoes relay" we stood in a line and had to run and drop our shoes at the end of the line. Once the line had all dropped their shoes we ran back to collect our shoes and put them back on. Ashley wasn't sure about it at first but she did fine ;)



Once Jacob heard the rules he was out of there. He didn't want to participate.



Next was the sack races. After the kids participated it was the adults turn...:)



Go Jeff Go!!!



Next was the egg on the spoon relay.



Jacob do you want to participate???? "No"



Go Ashley!!



Whoever thought to use wooden eggs was smart.



After the races it was time for the egg hunt. There was supposed to be a limit of 12 eggs per child. Those who couldn't count yet exempted themselves from this rule and came back with an overflowing bucket of eggs.

Ashley took exactly twelve, Jacob took 25. (When they were fighting over one empty egg the next day I warned him that if he complained I'd split his eggs up evenly with her :)



After the Easter Party we raced home to get ready to go to dinner with the Vincent's.

By some miracle we weren't even late despite the fact that we ran out of gas on the way home from the party.

I knew my gas was low and I kept asking Jeff how we were doing on gas. I've run out once before and I know that you can't let it get too low below empty. He promised he would get it in Corona since he was in the toll lane at the time. In Corona he wanted to keep going and thought "we would just make it, but it would be close". He was driving to Central where we were picking up his car from the tire place.

As we are driving I'm thinking in my mind "What if we run out of gas in the fast lane and we get stuck on the freeway".

Well sure enough at Arlington (one exit away) Jeff is on the phone and he pulls across all lanes of traffic as he is losing the power steering and the power brakes. We're out of gas. He is lucky enough that the light was green getting off the freeway and the offramp was downhill. He pulled into a drive way to a business and there we sat. He was still on the phone acting like nothing was going on to the client he was talking to.

I refrained from saying "I told you so" too much and let him figure it out. He jogged over to the oil change place nearby as he found a guy with a gas can who was willing to drive him over to get some gas. He was very lucky. The kids just sat in the car and continued to watch their movie.

We got home with a few minutes to spare before the Vincents came to get us.

They took us to a nice restaurant out in Fullerton called the Cellar.



It was a French restaurant that you walked down inside of. You felt like you were in a wine cellar/cave. It was cozy and interesting.



Scott and Penney talked about the escargot that they had eaten last time they were there and when Jeff and I cringed they got them so we could try them. Sooo...we have both tried snails now. I have to say they weren't bad at all. I was so expecting to hate them, I actually liked them. (the garlic sauce they were in helped too).



I got the halibut...



and Jeff got the steak...



It was a very nice evening and we were very grateful for nice friends who invited us out especially after such a crazy day!

One of "those" days...

Have you ever had one of those days? You know the ones that never seem to end. The ones that you think nothing can get worse, or crazier or more busy?? I seem to have these at increasing intervals as kids, callings and life gets busier. Of course Wednesday took the cake. The only saving grace was that I brought my camera with me all day to document it...

It started with getting up at 2:00am to wake up Jeff to get ready for his trip to New York. I woke up again at 3:00 to kiss him goodbye and then at 6:00 to get the kids up and going.

The morning started with getting all the kids out the door juggling multiple school drop offs and helping the children who were left at home during the school drop off hurry along with getting ready.

After I got them to school I went into the school and finished putting together the rest of the 1,100 book fair copies to go home to every child in the school.

"No big deal" I thought when I volunteered. That's when I learned just how much copying, stapling and sorting 1,100 copies was...



Right after this I went over to the Book Fair room to start setting up for the book fair. We got as far as getting the boxes stacked and the carts placed before I had to run off to take Ashley to a dentist appointment.



I knew that Ashley had a cavity on her bottom tooth that needed to be filled and then they said there was some things that had come up on her xrays last time that they were going to look at.

I fed her lunch in the car because I knew she would miss lunch at school and probably be too numb to eat for awhile and had her brush her teeth in the car so she would be ready for the dentist. The plan was to get her filling and then get her back to school right as lunch was ending.

(She spit out her toothpaste in the parking lot and thought it would be funny thinking that someone though she had thrown up on the ground. Crazy girl)



We got her into the dentist chair and then the associate dentist (our normal one was out of town) started explaining to me about Ashley's teeth. She had a cavity on the bottom teeth but she also had a tooth that was really bad on the top.

She has been wearing headgear for about 3 years and the band for the headgear is attached to a baby molar. Well I guess the permanent molar is coming in behind it slanted and it was a good place to trap food so now the baby molar was decayed all the way to the root under the gum line and had started decaying the permanent tooth coming in next to it.

They talked about getting the orthodontist in to look at it and the only way to deal with the baby molar was to extract it...I look over at Ashley as they are telling me all this and she's quietly sitting in the chair with tears coming down her cheeks. My heart broke. She probably didn't know all we were saying but she knew enough.

I then directed the conversation to her and had the dentist and I explain everything that was going to happen that day.

They started by numbing her up really good on the top and the bottom. They got the orthodontist in (who happens to be in the same complex) and he checked it out and made his recommendations and agreed to take her headgear brackets off. After shots and more shots (it didn't numb her the first time) they drilled for a long time on the bottom tooth and got it filled.

Here is Ashley with her numb 1/2 smile.



Then we went up to the orthodontist and they took off her headgear appliance and took some x-rays. Then back to the dentist to get her upper tooth pulled. That was an ordeal too. The tooth broke and then they had to spend another 10 minutes or so fishing around for the root that was still stuck in her jaw.

Here is the tooth they pulled. You can't tell very well but the root was HUGE. She said she wanted to keep her tooth and didn't want to give it to the tooth fairy. I told her I'd pay her a dollar and she could keep it.



At this point we've been at the dentist for 2 hours, she is bleeding everywhere and 1/2 her face was numb. I decided it would be pointless and cruel to take her back to school. She had been begging all day not to have to go back and I realized she would just be miserable anyways if we attempted it.

So we went to Target instead and I bought her a sympathy toy. Luckily I put gauze in my pocket because she was still bleeding pretty good and she kept soaking through the gauze and I had to keep changing it. We probably helped a couple of shoppers lose their appetite that day.



We got home with about 1/2 hour before school let out. I sat down to finally eat some lunch and of course the door bell rings.

In the brief 1/2 hour or less segments of being home that day the door bell rang interupting the scant seconds of peace I was trying to enjoy...

I was invited to the Easter program at the Jehovah's Witness Kingdom Hall where I would hear the truth about the bible.

I was informed by the Pest Control guy that he was here to do my Pest control service (He makes me come to the door at least twice in 25 minutes every time he's here!)

And I was trying to be sold steaks from the steak truck. It reminds me of the ice cream truck...but selling filet mignon instead of ice cream bars. They always make me a little nervous. Jeff has fallen prey to their sales pitch a couple of times and I was honestly able to tell her that my freezer was already full of ice cream truck steaks. Thank you very much.

Now back to my cold food...



At 3:00 I went to the school hoping the science camp bus was going to be back in time because Jacob and Taylor now had dentist appointments at 3:30.

It was back in time. Just enough time to have Jacob say goodbye to his friends and get his gear.

He loved camp and told me all about horseback riding, canoeing, rock climbing, hiking, and doing a high ropes course where he slipped a bunch of times and finally made it so he could do the zip line.

I had considered going as a parent chaperone earlier but ruled it out so I asked him if he would've wanted me there or not. "No" he said because he saw how overprotective some of the mothers were there and he was afraid that I would've been like that.

Well after some of his stories I think he's right. I'm glad he had a great time on his own and did all the daring things that would've made me squirm to see. I think it was better to hear about it after the fact.



So back at the dentist office to have Jacob get a small cavity filled and Taylor and Jacob both get stuff put on their back molars to prevent future cavities.

The receptionists joked "What are you doing living here today?" Mmmmmm, felt like it.

We had a little bit of a wait but we were done with 45 minutes to spare before it was time for King High school's open house.



This was one of those days that homemade dinner wasn't happening. Don't let Taylor's look fool you he was fine with eating pizza.

After we quickly ate pizza I sent Jacob upstair to take a shower and wash off the 3 days of science camp grime before it was time for our evening stuff. He was in the bathroom 20 minutes with the water on before it was time to leave. It was getting late so we called for him to get in the car.

Well...I didn't find out until the next day that he had never actually got into the shower. He had been "going to the bathroom" the whole time....hhmmmm Taylor said he was going to the bathroom while playing his DS. (Probably making up for lost video game time). But thats another story. So I got the kids including my unwittingly filthy boy in to the car to go to King's open house.



Overlapping with King's open house we had a court of honor at the stake center. Taylor and Jacob were both getting awards at the court of honor but Taylor really wanted to find out about the engineering program and the band at open house.

Taylor's solution was to skip the court of honor he doesn't like the stake ones so I heard all day "Mom you could make this day a lot easier if we just cut one thing out...like the court of honor..." "Mom, none of us want to go anyway..." I stood strong and said we could fit in both.

So we stood on the floor through the speeches of everyone and their dog so we could be first at the tables and then get out of there. As soon as the speeches were done we realized it wasn't so easy to find out where the right tables were.

We finally found band but they didn't give us any more information than we already had so we tried to search all over to find the engineering table. We finally found it as I was ready to give up. We stood in the line to talk to the representative and it was good because Taylor was able to get good advice about his schedule for next year.

At this point my life would've been much easier if I would've just called it a day and went home.

We didn't though and we drove over to the Stake Center and got to the Court of Honor 1/2 hour late. I was serenaded the entire drive with the melodious whines of a boy in the front seat stating "It's such a waste of time...we're always last and we have to wait forever to hear all the other ward's stuff....I can just get my patch later...(he needs it for his Eagle board of review, not to mention Jacob was getting awards too)...this will waste 2 hours of my life..."

Sure enough we were the last ward to get our awards. Every ward's drawn out slide shows of every activity for the past 6 months gave my son ample time to lean over and repeat more of the same protests over and over. Every friend of his whose name was called who wasn't there only reinforced his outrage of me "forcing" him to be there. "See they aren't here...why do I have to be here!!!"

I met the resistance with as much stone silence as I could muster for fear I would crack and then really lose it.

I could tell all of us had reached our limit for the day. It didn't help when Ashley started piping off too repeating some of the things that Taylor was saying...

Anyway....I enjoyed watching Jacob getting his tenderfoot.



And Taylor being awarded his Life. He was Oh so thrilled to one of only 3 boys from our ward to show up to get his award.

I gave the camera to Jacob to take pictures as Taylor put my mother's pin on me and tolerated my hug. I got back to the chair and the camera was laying on the chair by itself. Thanks Jacob.



So here is my self portrait of my mother's pin...




As soon as the court of honor was over hanging out with JJ seemed to put everyone in a good mood. JJ told Taylor "So when are you going to turn 14 so we can go to the dances with me?" Oh my I just realized that's next month!



We got home about 9:15 and put mostly everyone to bed. Taylor was still banging around trying to finish homework that he didn't get to do because I "forced" him to go to the court of honor.

At 10:00 I left him to his homework and went to bed. I was very glad that the day was over.



The next morning started out rough. Everyone was hung over from tooooo much the day before. By some small miracle everyone got to school...even though Jacob got his first tardy because I didn't discover that he never made it into the shower the day before just as we were getting ready to leave for school. So he got his shower but he got to school late.

By the time everyone was coming home from school all was forgiven and forgotten as we apologized to each other and we had a peaceful rest of the week until Jeff got back from New York. Thank Goodness!